This thread, while distressing in some ways, is of interest to some of us lurkers out here in internetland. I would like to add a small comment, if that is not out of line.
My wise and sadly-departed friend, Ralph Bell, was often heard to say: “It’s a hobby! It’s supposed to be fun.”
That’s what I see as missing from this discussion, namely, the word enjoyment. Is that not why we collect these things – because they give us pleasure? I would not disparage study, but I think many collectors collect because they find these things fascinating, or beautiful. So for study, substitute appreciate, or enjoy; and then add on the study part for another, secondary, dimension – but in many instances is not really why we acquired that piece. How is it possible to argue with I bought it because I like it? To me, that’s what it’s all about.
I think there is much pleasure to be found in the beauty of the sword or fitting, and also I suppose in the somewhat competitive aspect of collecting, which is different. It seems that Snowflake is focused only on this secondary aspect of collecting as a pursuit, some kind of competition, and disregarding the enjoyment to be had from the beauty of item(s) themselves. I see this as a loss of direction, a perversion of the original reason to be involved in this (or any other) hobby.
And none of this excuses rudeness or boorishness.
Rant over. One of my teachers once advised buy the sword, not the signature. I’d say there’s room for debate. Nevertheless, the OP bought a sword he found beautiful. No excuse necessary. We thank him for sharing it.