It is at this point that someone usually will recommend “It is time to study more BEFORE you make any more purchases”, so I guess that will be me. I hope you will accept my post as ‘educational’ versus someone just beating you up.
Many of us have made some mistakes while collecting and usually it is very early on when our eagerness is high, but our education and experience is low. I think you are pretty lucky the dealer is willing to work with you on getting a different blade. I know you feel you overpaid (now that the guys at NMB have helped you understand the value a bit) but really, you didn’t. The dealer advertised a blade and gave you a price, it seems his advertisement was fairly accurate and he did not misrepresent the blade although maybe he was not overly descriptive either, you agreed to pay that price, and it wasn’t until AFTER the purchase you did some research and found out you were not sure you did the right thing. I think he is pretty understanding to let you change your mind after the fact.
Can you imagine if we were talking about buying a car? You go to the car dealership and negotiate a price. You sign the paperwork and buy it and drive it off the lot. At this point you decide to take it to a bunch of other dealerships and they tell you that you paid too much. I’m not so sure the original dealership is going to worry too much about what other dealerships are going to say after the fact.
This is my long-winded way of saying that you should probably spend some time studying for a while so you get an idea of what you are purchasing, what the relative value of certain blades are, and know really what you are looking at, what you are looking for, and why you want it. The learning curve on nihonto is pretty wide, not easy, can include some expensive mistakes, and takes time and dedication. Even your request to let everyone here look at the spreadsheet and pick a blade for you is problematic. I’ll bet if there are 10 decent blades on the list, you would get 10 different answers because everyone would be picking what THEY like for you versus you choosing a blade you like and one that fits into your collection. On top of that, everyone would be giving you advice on the purchase of blades sight unseen which is a VERY big minefield. To get back to the car analogy… imagine walking onto the dealer lot of 300 cars with a group of 50 people and saying “You pick out a car for me”, or worse, sending the 50 people an on-line listing of the 300 cars and saying “Please pick one”.
Really hope you stay with us for the long haul. Study a lot. Maybe try to find someone in your area to help with blades in hand. Search the various dealer websites here at NMB and others on-line. Travel and go to a few sword shows so you can get an idea of the relative value of what you are looking at, and for. Most important, ask FIRST before making a purchase. The next dealer may not be so understanding or accept the NMB opinion of the worth of the blade he is selling.